Communication Tips for Couples #2 One of the biggest topics that bring folks to couples counseling is lack of communication. Over the next few weeks, I'll be sharing some basic communication tips for couples. Today's tip is about the Time Out. Time Outs aren't just for kids! When you and your partner are arguing and it feels like things are getting too heated, it isn't always the best idea to keep trying to resolve the issue or come to a conclusion. Sometimes continuing the conversation does more harm than good. I recommend that, when the two of you are in a good space, that you come up with some agreements around taking a Time Out. A Time Out is a specified period of time in which each of you disengage from the arguement or discussion, physically separate from each other, and take some time to think and cool down. This allows each of you time time to cool down, consider your partner's position, gather your thoughts, and be prepared to come back to the discu