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RESPECT...find out what it means to me! (Part 1)

RESPECT...find out what it means to me! (Part 1) Today we're going to start a 10 part blog series about respect.  Each week we'll explore 10 ways to show respect. There is so much controversy and confusion about respect, so I'm going to break it down.  First, basic respect should be shown to everyone.  But beyond that, further respect is earned.  One must show respect in order to earn it.   How do you show respect, you ask?  Let's walk through it... 1)  Refrain from interrupting others in conversation, when they are speaking.   What if they say something wrong or something you disagree with?  The same principle holds true.  Interrupting others is like telling them that what they have to say is not important.  So instead, practice Reflective Listening.  Oftentimes we focus on getting our own point across rather than listening to the other person.  Before responding to the other person, truly listen to what they have to say (without simultaneously thinking about what you

Self-Care & Stress Reduction During the Pandemic - Holiday Edition

  Self-Care & Stress Reduction During the Pandemic - Holiday Edition As we enter a new season of the COVID pandemic, I can't help but think about self-care.  It seems we all ought to focus on self-care more in the next year, to help get us through what's likely to be a trying year. So what kinds of things can you do for self-care during the holidays? 1)  Do What Brings You JOY! Bake holiday goodies, listen to holiday music, watch your favorite holiday movies, make holiday crafts.  None of these things are restricted by COVID.  And these are all things you can do from the comfort of your own home. 2)  Get Out in Nature! I know it's Winter and it might be cold or rainy, but there are likely a few days here and there that you can get outside or take a trip to the snow.  One of the fastest ways to reduce stress is to get into nature.  If you can't travel, then just grow some houseplants and surround yourself, or go to a local park and just take a peek around you. Slow d

Steps to Finding Yourself, Your Confidence, & Your Purpose - Part 3

  Good work so far!  I'm glad you've come back for Part 3.  You're going to be glad you decided to take this journey. This week you'll use the information you've gathered about yourself over the past 2 weeks to develop your confidence.  I bet you're wondering how your values, barriers, and next steps lead to confidence.   Here's the thing, now that you know who you are and what's important to you, and hopefully broken down the barriers that you identified and have taken the steps to make the improvements you wanted to see in your life, you can live authentically and congruent with who you are.  You are no longer living behind a mask of uncertainty or insecurity! Take a moment to think about that!!  You've done a lot of work to get here!  Give yourself a pat on the back!   So much of confidence simply comes from knowing yourself and your values. Confidence is defined as "the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; the state o

Steps to Finding Yourself, Your Confidence, & Your Purpose - Part 4

  Today is the last part of this series on Finding Yourself, Your Confidence, and Your Purpose.  I hope you're feeling a little excited about this week's topic.  This is the fun, yet kind of scary part.  So let's talk about finding your purpose. You discovered your values, what's important to you.  You determined the meaning and maybe the origin of your values, what really makes you, "you".  You discerned your barriers, what's gotten in the way of living out your values and who you were meant to be.  And you decided the next steps, the things you committed to doing to make a positive difference in your life.  In doing these things, you were able to figure out how to live authentically and congruent with your beliefs and values, which enables you to have a confidence in yourself that you may have never experienced before.   So, I'm wondering if, while doing all this work, you began to see a theme bubble up?  Were there ideas or feelings that came up acr