Asking For Help is NOT a Sign of Weakness, But Not Asking IS. Within our relationships, we often choose not to ask for help. Perhaps it's because we are too proud, or maybe we don't want our partner to know that we don't know what we're doing. Or maybe we don't want to feel like a burden to our partner. Whatever the reason you don't ask for help, you need to know right now that it is not a weakness to ask for help. Asking for help is demonstrating humility and a desire to grow and learn. And most people appreciate people who want to grow and learn. One person can't know everything about everything, so we can all learn from others. Think about all the areas in life in which we ask/get help from others - teachers, coaches, pastors, therapists...the list goes on. But I bet you don't think that asking these people for help is weak. So why do you think about asking others or asking your partner for help is weak. In fact, the Bible tells us in Prove